Spiritual Psychology
Helping People Bridge the Spiritual and Mundane
As a Marin and San Francisco psychologist specializing in spiritual issues, I believe that psychotherapy can uniquely help people on spiritual journeys.
Scientific psychology cannot fully explain spiritual mysteries. Parapsychology has made important advances but is often unfairly debunked by rationalists who ignore repeated findings of well-controlled experiments. But no pronouncement of science can deny that spirituality and religion are crucial inner realities for many people.
When one has a spiritual experience, it usually stirs up personal issues and wounds. It can also raise important questions by disrupting one’s previous worldview and calling into question old habits. Emotional turbulence that follows such encounters can be grist for the mill of psychological growth. Psychotherapy occupies a place in between transcendent experience and mundane, worldly life. It can serve a bridging function, helping one forge stronger connections between spirituality and everyday life.
The Call of Spirit
Spiritual experience may come through dreams, synchronicities (meaningful coincidences), the yearnings of the heart, and the strivings of the mind. It often first appears during times of crisis, great loss or personal challenge, despair or emptiness, or when one suffers and sees no solution. For some, spiritual awakening can come out of the blue, without any personal crisis, or as the result of prayer, meditation, or an intense physical experience, such as childbirth or life-threatening injury or illness.
Typical Issues Addressed
As a psychotherapist, I believe that respecting a person’s religious beliefs is similar to honoring their ethnic or cultural diversity. I don’t attempt to define spiritual truth or favor any religious tradition. I have worked successfully with people of various beliefs and traditions that honor the wisdom of basic human kindness. I only address spiritual concerns if a person brings these to therapy. Although the following list is not complete, issues we may address psychologically include:
- Struggling with Doubt
- Questioning one’s faith or beliefs
- Concerns about a spiritual teacher or guru
- Perplexed with the Higher Power concept in 12-step programs
- Health Issues
- Discerning spiritual experience from mental illness
- Coping with mental illness without denying spirituality
- Wondering whether physical symptoms are spiritual side-effects*
- Relationships
- Conflicts caused by differing spiritual or religious beliefs
- Friends or family don’t respect, support or understand your spirituality
- Maintaining relationships despite inner turmoil and ectasy
- Increased needs for time alone
- Exploring one’s relationship to one’s image of God**
- Outgrowing old relationships
- Increased Sensitivity
- Coping with intense emotions, thoughts and perceptions
- Contagion of feelings
- Intuitive perceptions
- Sensing non-physical presences and discerning this from mental health issues or brain phenomena*
- Exploring the Mystery of Dreams and Visions
- Precognitive dreams or visions
- Clairvoyant dreams or visions
- Lucid dreams
- Big dreams that seem to comment on larger realities than your life
- Out-of-body experiences (OBEs)
- Exploring dreams that seem mundane to find guidance for living
Readers familiar with Jungian psychology will find a detailed discussion of spirituality and psychological transformation in my dissertation, which can be accessed in Adobe PDF format through the following link: Individuation and Subtle Body: A Commentary on Jung's Kundalini Seminar. (An excellent study aide for reading the dissertation is Samuels, A., Shorter, B., & Plaut, F. (1986). A Critical Dictionary of Jungian Analysis. New York: Routledge & Kegan Paul, Inc.)
Getting Started
There's no charge for the phone call or for an initial psychotherapy consultation if we decide to meet. I can be reached at 415.271.2350. Initial appointments are arranged through a brief phone call. During that call, I try to get a general sense of the issues you're addressing. I also ask questions to make sure that your needs are likely to fit within my scope of practice (areas of training and expertise). If your needs fall outside that scope of practice, instead of meeting, I try to offer appropriate referrals to a therapist or clinic more suitable to your needs and wants. 24-hour notice is required to reschedule the no-charge visit once only. I welcome people of any race, religion, or sexual preference. If you want to know more about my fees and third-party payment policies, select this link.
*Whenever you have physical symptoms you find troubling, I’ll refer you to a medical doctor to be examined for physical illness. Such referrals are a necessary safeguard that leaves us free to explore psycho-spiritual phenomena that may be experienced physically.
**Just as people have relationships with other people that may be healthy or unhealthy, their attitudes toward spirit may be shaped by what they learned in early family relationships. Or, in some cultural worldviews, attitudes may be shaped by past life experiences. For example, a person who was made to feel guilty by their parents may feel guilty when they attempt to relate to God. As they heal the negative impact of their early relationships, they may open more fully to their experience of God. I differentiate the image or experience of God, otherwise known as the Godhead, from the Creator, because one’s God image may be distorted by conditioning. It is for this reason that some religious traditions refer to the actuality of God beyond the God image as being indescribable or transcending attributes.